How to deal with the clingy babies?

first time dpt exersaucer...wuuu jakunnn...

Actually I am the one who needs the solutions...

Hish...my twins boleh dikatakan clingy babies la..tiap2 hari mesti nak berkepit dgn ummi..kalau bole every single second,ummi must be around them... Sekarang ni kalau ummi nak pegi keje je,mst si abg mengamuk nak ikut...adik tu ade mood jugak la...aah...and I perasan yg aisy lebih serius ttg ni..tak bole ummi hilang sekejab..manjang nak berkepit je..once kalau ummi tgh dukung die n letak je skjb ,confirm die mengamuk.. eventho ummi pegi somewhere dalam bbrp saat je pon die dah angin..adoii...

Kalau dorg tgh main2,someone must be around them..kalau tak mengamuk la jwbnye. tp kalau ummi is home,ummi wajib ade di sisi dorg.. Tapi bila ummi dah bsantai2 dgn sorg..dan tiba angin bermanja,mmg dua2 akan dtg kat kite mintak dukung..huuu...one of them xbole tgk sorg lepak kat ummi atau nenen..mst lg sorg pon dtg mengendeng..dah kena dukung dua org..patah pinggang mak...T_T

Nak kate jarang jumpe org tak jgk..cume my babies mmg tanak kat org lain..kalau org yg dorg dah bese is okay..tp once dah nampak i,tanak dah kat org tu walaupon dah biasa mcm my mum..kalau org yg baru 1st time dorg jumpe,kalau adik, dia amik mase untuk nangis..kalau abg, no no..straight to the point je melalak..tade signal dah..

Its really sweet bila anak2 kita mcm tu kan..and I'm not complaining bcoz this is part of my motherhood experiences..tp sometimes mcm nk mrh pon ade,rimas pon ade..tp cpt2 tangkis bisikan syaitan tu.bukan ape..dah lumrah kan baby nak feel safe dgn their own mother..cume xsedapnye when people around judge yg "ko ni asyik bkepit je dgn anak"..adoi..nak buat camne eh..kalu bkepit org ckp mcm tu...kalau bia nangis org akn ckp "eh..amik anak ko ni..nangis je.." so mcm mane tu??My parents are okay la sbb faham kan since I live with them..org lain??hishhh...dilemma je...

Ade jgk tnye kwn2 yg face the same thing..most of them ckp bertahan je la..mmg ada satu tahap yg babies xleh berenggang dgn mother tp lame2 akan okey bila dia dah pndi berdikari main sendiri.maybe sbb terlalu rapat bonding tu kan..wat a gift..alhamdulillah..hrp2 bonding tu smpi bila2 la..takpe la susah sekarang..Allah tu kan maha adil..insya Allah,di masa hadapan senang...

So baru2 ni I belikan exersaucer utk my babies..mula2 igt nak belikan baby walker tp mcm bnyk plak bahayenye so i bought this thing..beli satu je pon,used plak tu.. Benda ni memang tak bole lah diguna untuk dia berjalan..lebih kepada bagi leka je waktu mak nak buat keje.. Selalu mak tgh masak bubur,letak baby yg crancky dlm exersaucer ni dan letak kat dlm dpr tu..then bgi something utk dia pegang n main or gigit,mak bole la buat keje2 msk2 dgn tenang..tp make sure lg sorg ade yg supervise la..kalau tak mmg jadik vacuum cleaner laaa.... This works sepanjang mak memasak.. So ade la satu solution..satu je la..selebihnye ttp mcm biasa..tp ade anak2 suke berkepit and melekat ni, looking at the bright side,senang nak panggil..bila panggil due org budak ni nenen..automatik kejar2 mendptkan ummi..cara dorg berebut my attention pon sweet..I love this two fellas who always ready to put a smile on me..love love love..without fail..hihi...